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Choosing A Life Path

 

In grade eight, I was profoundly stirred by Robert Frost’s poem, “The Road not Taken.” He wrote, “Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—

I took the one less travelled by,

And that has made all the difference.”

Now, after observing individuals in my own life, and much pondering, I realize that the thoughts we think, the words we speak, and the actions we take, will determine what road we choose in life. One man, an elderly inmate serving a lengthy sentence at Matsqui Institution helped me understand that if we want adventure, fulfillment. and a sense of purpose, we cannot leave this decision to chance.

I met Albert at the Matsqui prison when I was doing research for a university course on inmate culture. For much of his 68 years, Albert (better known as Red) had experienced life from inside prison fences. Deeply addicted to heroin, he was doing time for possession and trafficking in drugs. He had been successful in the drug “business,” but not at staying out of prison.

Over many years, in dangerous prisons like St. Vincent de Paul in Quebec, Stony Mountain in Manitoba, St. Albert in Alberta and the BC Penitentiary, Albert had learned how to survive. He didn’t complain or annoy the guards, and he never hid a knife or steel bar in his cell.

If there was no one else in the hobby shop, Albert felt free to talk. Smoking was still permitted in the prison and usually he sat in his hard backed chair, blowing smoke rings or meticulously rolling a cigarette. His hair was always neatly combed. Wearing steel rimmed glasses, even in the grey prison garb, he could have been mistaken for a college professor. It was from him I learned the in-house language used by inmates so guards wouldn’t understand. I also learned about their values and attitudes, how drugs were smuggled into the prison, and much more.

Because he didn’t create problems, Albert had earned a measure of trust and had been given responsibility for running the hobby shop. He was at times awarded a “temporary absence pass” to go with a staff member to buy supplies. On one occasion I arranged for Albert and several fellow inmates to meet with a small group of men from the community for a “get acquainted” session. The owner of a local book store arrived late, and because the men were wearing street clothes, he didn’t realize they were inmates. Albert impressed him with his understanding of life and later the businessman said, “It sure was good of the Warden to come.” He was speaking of Albert.

Albert seemed so knowledgeable and self assured, it was only when he was released on parole that I realized he had a major deficiency. Although Matsqui had offered him several university level courses, extensive shop instruction, and counselling, he had chosen not to enrol in any of these. He had grown comfortable, safe, and complacent in prison and experienced no urging to prepare for the challenges that awaited him when he was paroled.

After completing his sentence and being paroled, Albert returned to the streets of Vancouver and resumed his drug selling. Like many inmates, he had developed few strategies for staying on the outside of prison chain link fences. Prison was the only life he knew.

When he was accosted by a plain clothes police officer, his formerly sensitive antennae failed him. Wearing the apparel of an unkempt street person, the man said, “you got?” Albert replied, “I got.” Upon producing the drugs, he was quickly arrested, handcuffed and placed in cells.

Albert’s attorney called me and I met him in his expensive Vancouver high rise office. It was immediately obvious to me this was a pricey lawyer. Instead of preparing for a crime free life, Albert had placed a lot of money with him, believing this was the best insurance against doing more time. Because Albert had not participated in prison educational programs, when the case went to court I was hard pressed to answer the judge’s questions. At age 71, Albert was sentenced to 8 years. Assigned to a work camp, he served faithfully in the kitchen until his passing at age 74. He never achieved a life of adventure or fulfillment, but from him I learned the importance of choosing a path that will prepare us for life’s next challenge. It will come.

 

Tap’s Car, Harbinger of Change in Hedley

When I walk past the home of our neighbors, Tap and Di, I experience a distinct twinge of envy. The twinge comes from the knowledge that Tap possesses an uncanny ability to take an ordinary piece of wood and turn it into a delight inspiring work of art. His workshop and yard are virtually bursting at the seams with his creations. What Tap and Di are doing is pretty indicative of the changes coming to Hedley.

Initially I focused on Tap’s exquisite bird houses, constructed with assistance from Di. A carved logging truck loaded with logs also captured my interest. This past spring I became aware he was constructing a car similar to Henry Ford’s famous Model T. Having a longstanding fascination with automobiles from that era, I was immediately smitten. I have visited his shop regularly to stay abreast of progress.

Being one dimensional, the car will never be driven on the streets of Hedley. It’s body, like that of the Model T, is constructed primarily of wood, but without the thin metal cladding affixed to Henry Ford’s cars. It has a single tail light, which is turned on after dark. As with many early vehicles, the spokes are of wood. Tap still intends to install a rumble seat.

The project exudes imagination, loving creativity, and meticulous regard for detail. While others wearied us (although not in Hedley) with noisy protests against pandemic restrictions, Tap laboured patiently and joyously to provide our community with a work of art that compels attention. In the four years since they retired and moved here, Tap has also constructed the most impressive gazebo in Hedley, possibly in all of B.C. Di also has an innovative bent and is usually on hand to offer help, suggestions and praise.

Until a few years ago Hedley saw little change, other than an occasional coat of paint on a house. With rising concerns about health due to air pollution, a desire to escape the increasing population density in urban centers, and the advent of covid-19, city dwellers began displaying an interest in small communities like Hedley. Having sold their more pricey properties elsewhere, they have generally come with at least some cash in their pockets and surprisingly often, the skills required to create interesting change.

A couple of years ago another neighbor began a project that interested me. Debra, who had recently settled in Hedley with her partner Johnny, decided to build a stone wall across the front of their property. With the advice, encouragement and prodding of Helmut, a fellow Hedley resident, she began assembling stones. Although no longer a young man and mostly confined to a wheelchair, Helmut faithfully showed up at Debra’s construction site and insisted on a high standard. He has a lifetime of experience with similar projects and offered prudent guidance.

Debra labored zealously for about four months, installing enough rebar to be a challenge for the new owners when she sold the property to them. It was a challenge for the new owners because they didn’t want the wall. Helmut’s focus had been on making the structure not only attractive but also incredibly robust. Many determined blows with a sledgehammer and power tools were required to dismantle it. In the meantime, Debra and Johnny acquired another property just around the corner from where Linda and I live. Lately she has been heard musing under her breath about erecting a second wall.

Walking around this quaint little town at dusk each evening, I rejoice at the creativity I see flourishing. Over approximately seven years, Terry and Valerie have applied a generous touch of magic to a decrepit motel at the entrance to Hedley. On the far side of town, overlooking 20 Mile Creek, a two story house, built with blond logs invites a second look. It is the creation of Bill and Pixie, recent additions to our community.

When Linda and I returned to Hedley some eight years ago, the town was pretty static, known largely for its gold mining history, the Hedley Historic Museum, a well received monthly pancake breakfast, and the yearly street dance on Scott Avenue. A wave of gifted and motivated “immigrants” to our community has brought colour and a greater vibrancy. In my opinion, and that of numerous tourists, Hedley is well worth a visit. If you’re interested, Tap’s car is now affixed to the front of his workshop.

New Coffee Shop Has Touch Of Magic

In most communities it’s possible to find a coffee shop where patrons can sit around a table, enjoy a cup of java and chat. For approximately the past two years, citizens of Hedley have had only limited access to such a place locally. The brew drought began a few years ago when the highly respected Hitching Post restaurant burned to the ground in the middle of the night. Not long after that the Nickel Plate restaurant closed its doors.

Except when covid restrictions forbade almost every source of pleasure, we have been able to buy coffee and meet neighbours at the Hedley Hall, but only between 6:30 am and 8 am. This summer the Hedley Museum offered coffee and pie (lemon or apple) Friday to Monday. They have just closed for the season. The Country Market does sell coffee, but only for takeout. Other than the pandemic and the smoke from wildfires this summer, the main gripe in town has been lack of a place to meet friends and exchange ideas and gossip. I have at times been embarrassed when asked by tourists where they could find a place to relax with a cup of coffee and a muffin.

Last Friday Hedley citizens celebrated the cessation of these meagre offerings when Terry Leonard and Valerie Beckman opened the doors of their Grand Union Cafe. Located at the corner of Scott and Haynes, the name comes from a hotel once situated on that site. The hotel burned down in 1918.

Knowing both Terry and Valerie have an impressive streak of creativity, I walked into their premises a few minutes after their 8 am opening. My neighbor Sharon, and also Ralph and Lynne were already seated at a table, evidently with high expectations. Others soon arrived and there was an animated buzz of conversation and laughter.

When the initial influx of patrons had been served, Valerie led me to the rear of the premises and talked about the enterprise and how it had come about. She spoke with just a hint of an English accent and explained she had come from London at about age 17 or 18. “In 2008 I was manager in a doctors office on Salt Spring Island,” she began. “Terry was doing renovations upstairs in the same building. Our paths crossed frequently and we realized we had a lot in common.”

The cafe offers an impressive array of beverages, including cappuccinos, lattes, Americano and drip coffee. Customers were snapping up muffins, scones, cookies, cheese cake, cinnamon toast, pie and other tempting items. Some chose to sit in the sunshine outside where there are strategically situated chairs and benches, and a view of the surrounding mountains.

“We also offer local artisans an opportunity to place items on consignment,” Valerie said. Pointing to a display of embroidered jackets and mats mounted on a wall, she continued, “those are the work of Kate Todd.” Kate is well known in Hedley as a gifted artisan. I noticed an assortment of clothes on a rack and Valerie told me they sell quality used apparel and shoes. Plum ketchup and cherry barbeque sauce will also soon be available. They have lots of plans for the future, including an electric car charging station.

Glancing around it was evident to me that patrons were experiencing a sense of enchantment. I wasn’t surprised when Valerie said, “We think of ourselves as a family of imagineers. We like to add a little magic. The space next to the cafe is Terry’s studio, where he plays music and creates artwork.”

Although I’m not a committed coffee drinker I purchased a cappuccino and walked out just behind Pat, a longtime Hedley resident. “I enjoyed the coffee,” she said, “and I’m glad we finally have a cafe. We’ve needed it a long time.”

Hedley Street Dance Brings Joy

The Big Buck Band

It was party time in Hedley this past Saturday night. People arrived in the afternoon from all over the Similkameen Valley and beyond. They came in cars, pickups, motorcycles and even a truck pulling a horse trailer. Fifteen to twenty exuberant partiers emerged from the trailer, anticipating a good time. There was also a bus from Princeton, with members of the Princeton Posse hockey team aboard. Side streets were lined with vehicles, the majority from out of town. After more than a year of covid warnings from Doc Henry, it was time to release a lot of pent up frustration and energy. A time to celebrate life, friendships and the end of the virus (which of course is still creating havoc in some places).

The annual street dance has long been a much anticipated event in our community. Organized by the Hedley Community Club, it was cancelled last year due to the pandemic. “The Big Buck Band had been scheduled to perform in 2020,” Cindy Regier, one of the organizers told me. “When group events were prohibited by the authorities, the band committed to being here this year.” Cindy estimated that approximately 300 people participated. My own guess was 500. “We sold about 150 tickets to the dinner,” Cindy said. “Doug Bratt prepared the chicken and a number of people helped with salads. We also delivered a number of meals to individuals living alone, some in poor health.”

The five Big Buck Band musicians come from diverse points in B.C., including Kamloops and 1OO Mile House. They set up their stage on Scott Avenue, Hedley’s main street, in front of the Country Market. Although I’m more than a tad older than many of the attendees, I enjoyed their tunes, which Cindy described as a mix of country and rock. They began their performance at dusk and the younger crowd quickly flowed to the areas nearest the stage. Several pretty teenage girls in brightly colored, flowing dresses led the way. Their fluid movements reminded me of monarch butterflies I had observed with fascination when I was a kid living in the country. The ecstasy of these young women was palpable.

The more mature crowd needed time, and in some cases a little “fortification,” to join the dancers. I drifted among those who were content to observe, watching for photo opportunities. Seeing three attractive young women sitting on the stone fence in front of Woodlie Park and chatting animatedly, I said, “I’m looking for photos for my blogsite. Can I snap a picture of you?” “Sure,” the nearest one responded without hesitation. They ceased chatting and posed as though this was for the Vancouver Sun.

Seeing two young couples standing away from the crowd indulging in a cigarette, I asked if they were enjoying the music. “Yes,” one said enthusiastically. “It’s good music.” Noting that they were making no attempt to social distance, I asked if they had accepted the covid vaccination. “I had an appointment,” one of the women said, “but I didn’t go.” They expressed concerns about possible side effects.

There likely were a few masks somewhere in this crowd, but I didn’t see even one. Also, there appeared to be no thought of social distancing. These were friendly, easy to like people and I do hope none will suffer for this evening of fun and freedom.

At midnight, after chatting briefly with Cindy, the band leader said, “I’m going to show my softer side.” The band began singing “Amazing Grace” in enchanting 4 part harmony. A hush fell on the crowd and it became a magical moment. People began joining the band in singing. For Cindy it was one of the highlights of the evening.

Although beer sales appeared to be brisk at The Country Market, I neither saw nor heard reports of untoward incidents. Someone suggested the trouble makers have departed from our community. Some cannabis use was evident but not extensive or a problem.

An event like this requires many hours of planning and often tedious work. In this case, the organizers went home at about 2pm, long after everyone else had departed. I’m personally pleased that the Community Club has revived the Street Dance. It’s a lot of fun and it brings a positive identity to our community. We owe the organizers a huge thanks for again making it happen. I’m sure they’d welcome the participation of others to lighten the load next year.

 

 

Rod Moncrieff, Making His Mark In Hedley

Rod Moncrieff with his 1929 Plymouth.

When Rod Moncrieff stopped in Hedley for coffee 27 years ago, it was the low rumble of his Harley Davidson and the red beard extending well down his chest that people noticed. Doug Smith, then a local resident, saw him looking at a large two story building with a ‘for sale’ sign at the corner of Scott & Haynes streets. Scrutinizing the beard and powerful bike, he said, “you’ll fit in fine here.” There was still at least a whiff of the town’s earlier gold mining atmosphere, and Rod was captivated. He bought the building, a combination of home, shop and storage facility. When he displayed a biker gang flag, people wondered what to expect from this new neighbour. Since then Rod has put his stamp on the property and is well accepted in the community. He was subsequently joined by Valerie and her daughter Alison.

Over the years, Rod has assembled an eclectic assortment of items, inside and out. Until he gave Linda and me a tour last week, I thought he was just one more hoarder of worthless junk, a man with both feet mired in the past. Pointing to a number of items lying together on the ground he said, “there’s a car in there.” Then, “Most of what you see is for sale. This morning I sold a car part.” Picking up a miniature pitcher, he said, “I bought this for fifty dollars from Mike Orlowski. It came out of the Similkameen Hotel which burned down in 1916.”

I had long been curious about the elderly dishevelled Plymouth standing close to the building, seemingly abandoned. A sedan, it still exudes character and personality that is unmatched in current vehicles.

I knew his building had once been an automotive garage operated by Gerald Burr. When I mentioned this Rod said, “At one time it was actually a Plymouth dealership. The town was a bustling centre then, with a much greater population.” He considered for a moment, then said, “the first Plymouth was produced in 1928 to compete with Ford’s low cost Model A. It was introduced to the public at Madison Square Garden with aviator Amelia Earhart at the wheel. She and her plane disappeared in 1937 while flying across the Pacific Ocean.”

Rod’s building at one time was a Plymouth dealership.

Rod’s Plymouth came out in 1929. There were several other models, including a stylish coupe with a rumble seat. “My car was owned by a man living in Hedley,” Rod explained. “I bought it because of the dealership having been here. It’s a 4 cylinder, with 45 horsepower. The motor won’t start but I can turn it over with a hand crank. A guy offered me $4,000 for it just this morning. If he gets serious I’ll sell it.”

Rod probably could restore the car if he chose to. He’s familiar with machinery and knows how to weld. At one time he worked for a company that built trucks using sheet metal. Later he owned “Patches”, a backyard motorcycle shop in O.K. Falls. “I got to know a lot of Hell’s Angels,” he said. “I fixed plenty of Harley’s for them.” This conjured up another memory. “My cousin married a member of the Grim Reapers in Alberta. Some years ago he was involved in a shooting and is on parole for life. He’s changed his ways and is now a Seventh Day Adventist minister.

Placing a hand on the Plymouth, he said, “this car was driven from Saskatoon to Keremeos. Two years ago I talked with the driver’s son. He told me he has three boxes of parts and will drop them off when he comes to Hedley again.”

Rod’s 74 years have been interspersed with a number of adventures, some he might prefer to forget. A barefoot water skiing episode went wrong, leaving him with a crushed vertebrae. While in the navy he was trained in weapons and demolitions. Later, working with explosives at a gold mine near Yellowknife a defective blasting cap fired and he lost part of his face. He spent 4 months in the hospital undergoing surgeries to his face and hand.

Rod’s face was nicely restored and his beard has shrunk

At this time he seems done with adventures. He sold the Harley to pay taxes, the flag has been taken down, his face was nicely restored, and the beard has shrunk. He’s devoted to Valerie and speaks with admiration of Alison’s accomplishments. Like the aging Plymouth, Rod’s life has taken on an aura of character.

Karen Collins Shedding Light On Local History

Karen Collins, local history sleuth

Karen Collins is gifted with a number of attributes that would have made her an attractive recruit for CSIS, Canada’s spy agency. Chief among these are an insatiable curiosity, a prodigious work ethic and a tenacious will to tease out information from unlikely sources. Add to this an alert mind and an ability to express herself clearly, and we have the makings of a canny sleuth. The spy moguls didn’t come calling though and she has devoted her research talents to unearthing secrets from the local past.

Born in Oliver, Karen spent her growing up years in rural communities, including several years in Hedley. When the family moved to Kettle Valley, the nearest neighbours lived a mile away. Still preschool, Karen and her older brother tramped a mile through bush to play with their children. Even at that age her curiosity sometimes took over. When her father said they should stay away from a nearby hill because the bears were coming out of hibernation, she felt compelled to do a little investigating there. One day her father hid in a clump of bushes and made growling sounds. “We were terrified,” she admitted. “My mom saw us coming and she told me later I had been running so fast, my ponytail had been flying straight out.”

Her fascination with local history began early. “My parents took us for Sunday drives along logging roads and they talked about local scenes and people. I was interested and paid attention.”

Karen’s interest in local history, especially the people, didn’t abate. “I learned that Thomas Ellis and his family, early ranchers with thousands of acres and large herds of cattle, had donated land for the Penticton Cemetery” she said. “I made a list of all the people buried there and did research on them.” She wanted to know who they were and what they had contributed to their community.

When geologist Charles Camsell (1876-1958) came to Karen’s attention, she was quickly intrigued. She learned he was the son of an HBC factor and did extensive geological fieldwork in southern B.C. Locally he did a detailed survey of the unique gold deposits of Nickel Plate Mountain. “I recently ordered a rare book on Camsell from Boston, ” Karen said, “but it’s so musty I’ve put it aside to let it air out.”

When Karen became a single mom with two young children, she took a retail course at Okanagan College. In 1979 she was hired by Woodwards in Penticton. Here she met Hartley Clelland when he became store manager in the mid 1980’s. He had grown up in Hedley so this gave them an important common ground. They were surprised when they discovered that Karen’s great aunt Maggie (McLean) had been married to Joseph Brent, Hartley’s great grandfather. In time the relationship flourished and they became a couple.

“We visited a number of countries,” Karen said. “In Egypt I took a photo of Hartley at a pyramid. In Mexico I climbed to the edge of a pyramid. We also did cruises. These trips gave us an appreciation for what we have, and also for the people who live there. Hartley and I enjoyed over 25 years together, until his passing in 2019.”

Karen retired early and is investing much of her time in research and writing. She is president of the Penticton branch of the South Okanagan Historical Society and south okanagan editor of the society’s annual publication, Okanagan History. She has researched and written about area schools, churches, businesses and agriculture. “Currently I’m working on an article about L.W. Shatford,” she said. “He built the store that eventually became the Hitching Post restaurant in Hedley. For 17 years he was the local Conservative MLA. Later he was appointed to the Senate.”

Karen has scoured pretty much all newspapers in southern B.C. Some, like the Hedley Gazette are now defunct, but past issues offer valuable insights into people and events of early years. She also goes to the UBC Library Open Collections site for information.

Karen has family connections to the local past. Her great grandfather, Roderick McLean, was in charge of the Keremeos HBC post from 1863 to 1868. Listening to her talk about the men and women whose lives she has researched and written about, I was impressed with her intimate understanding of them, and the immense respect she has for them. Some are family and others seem like family.

A Former “Bad Boy” Tells His Story

Paul Richardson, when he was working in Cuba

In the years I worked for the One Way Adventure Foundation, a variety of youths were sent to our programs by judges, probation officers and social workers. Invariably they came with thorny issues that brought them pain but which they resisted dealing with. For mere mortals, change is difficult and I have sometimes wondered when they moved on whether we had helped them gain the motivation, understanding and skills required to continue rebuilding their lives.

Last week, after vanishing for forty-five years, one such youth surprised me with the following comment on my blogsite.

“I was one of those ‘bad boys’ sent to the OWAF back in 1976 by the courts. What an adventure!!

My name is Paul Richardson and I’m forever grateful to Len & Jean. Ron Gibson if I remember right was a counselor with the foundation. Ron would always steer us straight and kept a tight rein on us. I attended the Foundation School in Surrey, and we would travel to Hedley lots. Stayed in the Colonial House and the chef in the kitchen was a fantastic cook, (former biker if memory serves me right).

They had a cabin up the mountain from Hedley that we stayed in for a few nights in the winter. Going out to the well, break the ice in it to get water and the snow was deep. When we came back to the Colonial House, we came down the old tram line snow shoeing and sliding on our butts( I have a scar from an old spike sticking out of the ground ). Never felt it, frozen butt. It wasn’t until the chef noticed and fixed me up right away.

I was 16 when I was sent there and here I am soon to be 61, and the memories of that time of my life are flooding back to me. They are what saved me back then, the counselors of this great foundation. Have to stop writing for tears are forming in my eyes.


It took me another 10 years to get it. At 26 I sobered up and have been in AA for 34 years now, married and still living and dreaming. Thank-you Ron, Len and Jean and the rest of the One Way Adventure Foundation.”

Although I did not work with Paul directly, I recalled he had been gifted with a robust physique and a willingness to engage in conversation. In a 2 hour phone call from his home in Calgary last week, he talked about his life. “My father was an alcoholic,” he said. “He joined AA and my mother attended Al-Anon. I don’t remember my father ever giving me any positive affirmations in my early years, or saying he loved me.”

Paul began drinking some time after age 8. “The alcohol interfered with my memory. I don’t remember much of my childhood. I became a blackout drinker. I could be happy-go-lucky, then, in an instant become angry without reason”. As we talked, some memories came back to Paul. “A friend and I were bored and did a break and entry, looking for alcohol. This is what got me sent to the One Way Adventure Foundation at their Surrey location. I was placed in the home of a local family and this was a good experience.

In his younger years my group leader, Ron Gibson, had been on the wrong side of the law himself. He had been where we were, and had learned to stay away from what would drag him back down. Ron and other leaders planted good seed in us.”

After the Foundation Paul floundered for another 10 years, then went to detox, sobered up and joined AA. More good seed was planted here. “I still love the taste of alcohol,” he said. “I just don’t touch it anymore.

Paul Richardson, in front of a jobsite in Galveston, Texas

In 1986 I took a heavy equipment operators course and learned to run dozers, scrapers, graders, packers and other equipment. I enjoyed it and found I had a knack for it. Since then I’ve also taken courses in excavators and boom trucks. I’ve worked across Canada and in the U.S.”

In 2001 Paul married Rose and they have a comfortable home in Calgary. Looking back over his life now, he stills gives credit to the good seed planted by the One Way Adventure Foundation and AA. It helped that he was receptive to the constructive counsel he received.

Happy Valentines Jim & Pat!

Pat & Jim Melville, still in love! This photo was taken for Valentines Day, 2015. 

This is a reprint of the 2015 article.

Advertising moguls wouldn’t likely select Jim and Pat Melville of Hedley as their Valentines Day poster couple. After the bumps and bruises that come with almost 45 years of marriage and raising 2 children, the Melvilles don’t have the sleek, unrealistic fashion magazine figures. They don’t exude the “over the top” glamour advertisers thrive on. For me their life partnership provides convincing evidence that stability and faithfulness in a relationship is more rewarding than the Larry King model of multiple failed marriages. I was interested in meeting with them because they are so thoroughly untouched by the hype and values of the advertising gurus.

They grew up in a time when money was scarce. Recalling the day in 1960 when he went to a car lot, Jim said, “I told the salesman I liked the1949 Pontiac they had, but I could pay only three hundred dollars. He said he’d talk to the manager. A few minutes later he came back. The manager had approved my offer.” The first time he went to put in gas, he couldn’t find the gas cap. After hunting for some time, he found it behind one of the tail lights.

For Jim, meeting Pat must have been “love at first sight.” He still remembers the day and the precise time. “I was working at what is now the Weyerhauser Mill in Princeton,” he said. “Some friends came to give me and a co-worker a ride home. They brought Pat along. It was 6 pm on October 24th, 1969.” For him the timing was fortuitous. His father had been deceased for 13 years, and he had lost his mother 3 weeks ago. Pat was a ray of sunshine. The following weekend he took her to a movie in Oroville.

They had similar interests and values, and their relationship flourished rapidly. It may surprise younger readers that Jim asked Pat’s parents for “her hand in marriage.” At that time there was greater respect for societal values and institutions, including marriage. Her father liked him and jokingly said, “if you want her, take her.”

“We asked Reverend Derek Salter to marry us,” Jim said. “He took marriage pretty seriously. We had to go to his home and tell him about ourselves and why we wanted to get married. I don’t remember what we told him.”

Apparently the Reverend was satisfied with their responses. He performed the ceremony in Hedley’s United Church (now Hedley Grace Church) on March 28, 1970.

Pat and Jim share a lengthy history in Hedley. Her family arrived in 1951 and her father operated the tram that moved ore, supplies and people between the Nickel Plate mine, high on the mountain, and the town. “I attended school here,“ she said. “So did our children and grandchildren.”

Jim arrived somewhat later than Pat. He is one quarter native and related to the well known Allison family. “My mom was half aboriginal,” he said. “My dad was Irish.”
Initially they rented. When they applied to rent a house owned by the Credit Union, the manager said, “Why rent? You should buy it. There is a grant available.” They accepted his advice and it is their home to this day.

“There were large families living in small houses then,” Pat said. “People didn’t have much money to do things. We attended community events. There were dances at the Moose Hall and a big Robbie Burns celebration each year. Also Boxing Day and New Years dances. Groups of ladies met for coffee in their homes. Expectations weren’t as high as now.”

It has taken love, a sense of humour and commitment to get to where they are now. “If we didn’t agree about something,” Pat said, “we talked about it. We always worked through the problems.”

When our coffee cups were empty and they were ready to leave, it occurred to me that throughout our conversation, their voices had been gentle and respectful toward each other. At a time when 30 day Hollywood unions no longer surprise us, the Melville’s life long partnership is inspiring and well worth observing. Happy Valentines Jim and Pat!

Unfortunately, Jim passed away January 24, 2021. He was a good friend to many, and a valued member of the Hedley community.

Noree Finds Purpose At Camp Colonial

Noree on the patio of their Hedley home.

When Noree Lilly first arrived in Hedley at age 19, she didn’t expect these few days to dramatically alter the direction of her life. Born in New Mexico and raised in California, she had left a job in a California hospital seeking adventure and purpose. “I enrolled as a student at Trinity Western University,” she said. “One of the courses was in outdoor recreation and the instructors brought us to Camp Colonial in Hedley for the wilderness skills component.”

She was enchanted by the mountains, the Similkameen River, and the rustic former gold mining community. Some aspects of the training were intimidating though, testing her courage and resolve.“The rappelling course really challenged me,” she recalled. “I was terrified the first time I was instructed to step off the edge of a high rock cliff and rappel down. Although the two instructors were experienced and I was securely tied in, I knew if anything went wrong it would be a long plunge to the bottom. When we moved to the higher, more difficult Grosbeak site, at one point because of the inward curving of the rock wall, my feet couldn’t find rock surface to steady myself.” The course also included rock climbing, chimneying, orienteering and stretcher lowering. “I didn’t at that time have the upper body strength required for rock climbing,” she said. “I struggled with it.”

In the evening Noree and the other course participants returned to the Camp Colonial lodge and here she met Len Roberts, founder of the One Way Adventure Foundation. The organization, still in its infancy, had a contract with the provincial government to operate programs for youth in Surrey and at Camp Colonial. It lacked extensive resources, but Len saw possibilities where others did not. He apparently recognized the potential in Noree and invited her to a one on one visit with him.

The young organization’s budget was lean and the needs were numerous. Len could not offer Noree a financial incentive to come on staff. What he could offer was an opportunity to provide constructive guidance to youths who almost invariably came from dysfunctional homes, substance abuse, crime and life on the streets. “In the church our family attended in California I taught a class for teens, some almost my age,” Noree said. “I found it hard and told myself I will never work with teens again.”

Len did not have charisma as we commonly think of it. His fervent belief in the importance of the work was compelling though, and in his presentation of the vision Noree heard something she found appealing. “His words and quiet passion ignited something deep inside me, and I decided to come on board.”

Initially she was promised no pay for her work, other than room and meals. “Len did at times slip me twenty five dollars for basic essentials,” she said. There were other perks. One that she valued highly was the more advanced wilderness skills training provided by Jeff Evans of Keremeos Outward Bound. Noree benefited from Jeff’s expert training and in time was elevated to the rank of instructor in rappelling and orienteering.

Watching Noree develop as a leader, Len initiated a one year training school for young adults who yearned for adventure, purpose, and experience in working with people. The training included rappelling, rock climbing, a ten day Bowron Lakes canoeing and portaging expedition. There was also a five day back packing expedition in Cathedral park, down hill and cross country skiing, horse back riding, plus yard work, cleaning and cooking. They were mentored in wilderness skills and the youth work by several seasoned, established staff.

Noree loved the outdoors and the activities gave her a common ground with the youths. “I got close to some of the girls,” she said. “After completing their program, years later they at times came around to visit and in some cases to show off their children.” At the end of one year Noree became the first graduate of this program. It matured and prepared her to become a full fledged group leader. She met Derek, a co-worker, and in time they were married. They now have three adult children and two grandchildren. After the Foundation closed its doors Noree worked for the Hedley Improvement District and then Canada Post. The young woman who came to Camp Colonial many years ago found adventure, purpose, a family, lasting friendships and much more.

Food Trailer, Building For A Future

Bill Carmichael & Trisha Mills, Courage for the Future

Almost two years after the iconic Hitching Post Restaurant burned to the ground in the middle of the night, people in Hedley continue to hope it will rise from the ashes. Visitors to our community still ask if it will be rebuilt. It’s a question owners Bill Carmichael and Trisha Mills have been grappling with since that fateful night when they jumped from the second floor into a void of darkness. In a conversation in our home last week they talked about their life journey since that night, including their ongoing battle with serious, life changing injuries sustained when they jumped. To this day they live with pain and an uncertain financial future. Some individuals would have been driven to their knees by the misfortune that has assaulted them. Many relationships would have floundered. Amazingly, Bill and Trisha have found the inner resolve to carry on together.

They spent much of this past winter in Mexico, living in their small car top tent. I had noticed upon their return that their walking seemed easier. “It wasn’t as warm as we expected,” Trisha said. “Much of the time we wore winter clothes. It was warmer than Hedley though and this contributed to the healing of our bodies. Walking on the sandy beaches increased our muscle strength. We couldn’t use our walking sticks on the sand.”

“We both still have nerve pain,” Bill continued. “Some days are better than others. I use my walking stick more than Trisha.”

They know some of their physical issues will likely never completely leave them, but they aren’t grumblers. “That’s just life,” Bill said. “If you want to survive you make decisions and move forward. We don’t mire ourselves down. There’s never been a time when we came to a full stop. In Mexico we talked a lot about our future, “ Bill continued. “It’s still our desire to one day offer Hedley a year round food service. We’ve drawn a floor plan for a restaurant, but we know we won’t be able to replicate the Hitching Post experience. The extent of our recovery will determine what we can do.”

A year ago they were urged to consider a mobile food service as a beginning. “We thought maybe in a year we’d be able to do that,” Trisha said. “We didn’t feel physically strong enough at the time, but we needed an income so we began looking into possibilities.” Several months ago they bought a food trailer with an established customer base in Penticton. “It’s pushing our bodies to the limit,” Bill noted, “but we’re getting an understanding of what we’re capable of. We’re happy to have a sense of direction.”

Each Friday, Saturday and Sunday they are on location in Penticton at the Indigenous Bloom cannabis store across from Super Save Gas, west of the channel. In the evening they drive into the surrounding mountains and sleep in their tent. “Dexter, our dog, absolutely loves it in the mountains,” Bill said.

On Thursdays they set up in the heart of Hedley, on the former site of the Hitching Post. “People seem happy to see us here,” Trisha said. “It’s very encouraging to have their support.”

Trisha is preparing a delicious breakfast sandwich.

At this time Trisha is more involved in food preparation and serving customers. Bill sets up and maintains the systems to ensure their fledgling enterprise functions smoothly. Both are on their feet a lot. “Being physically active does exact a toll,” Trisha observed. “Nerve damage causes pain. Sometimes when I’m sitting down and want to get up, my body screams “no, no, no!” “We deal with the pain when no one is around,” Bill added. “Usually at the end of the day.”

Their menu entices. Linda and I have both sampled the breakfast sandwich and the smoky hotdog. This Thursday it may be bratwurst or a black bean burger. Then likely the pulled pork sandwich. Knowing the food trailer will be in town, we look forward to Thursdays.

Since the loss of the Hitching Post, Bill and Trisha have lived in a small motor home or their car top tent. In spite of the cramped quarters, ongoing pain, being together almost continuously and having only limited funds, they have retained their resolve to move forward. Listening to them and observing their actions, it seems possible that one day some version of the Hitching Post will rise from the ashes.

Bill & Trisha aren’t just operating a food trailer, they’re building for a future.