Robert Mellalieu, Optimistic Candidate for Green Party

Robert Mellalieu, optimistic Green Party candidate.

Over the past four years I’ve become increasingly disenchanted by the vast gulf between the positive, “sunny ways” statements of our outgoing government, and the lack of follow through. My awareness of this chasm has undoubtedly been sharpened by the words of former Rutgers University professor, Ashley Montagu. He wrote, “If you want to know what people believe, don’t read what they write, don’t ask what they believe, just observe what they do.”

With these thoughts swirling somewhere in the bowels of my subconscious mind, I noted the black Smart Car in the parking lot of the Hedley Seniors’ Centre last Wednesday. It belonged to Robert Mellalieu, local candidate for the Green Party. He had arrived from West Kelowna shortly after 7 am to meet with the early morning coffee group. Although people were already leaving when I showed up at 8, Rob immediately agreed to a one on one conversation.

Wondering if his words were supported by his choices and actions, I referred to the Smart Car. He appeared relaxed, but immediately fully engaged. “My wife also drives one,” he said, then added, “in summer we use a washline to dry clothes. In winter we have laundry hanging everywhere in the house.” That seemed to suggest he is about more than just talk. I was impressed by the discipline and commitment required to be here so early.

When I asked why he is running for the Green Party a second time, he jokingly said, “No one else wanted to. They’re all scared off by my competence.” He smiled, then said, “running for Green isn’t a joke anymore. People are beginning to understand there’s something to this.”

Rob doesn’t have the financial resources for a campaign like that of the major parties. He has demonstrated commitment and belief by putting in $1,000 of his own money, Another $1,500 has come from supporters. “People have given time to my campaign,” he said. “A couple of youths were a great help to me in summer. I also have a strong presence on social media.”

He is well known, especially in the Kelowna area. His public experience includes the Ambassador Program, Rotary, Chamber of Commerce, Big Brothers, a men’s recovery program and Toastmasters. In his work life he operates a business assisting people with computer issues.

Although he doesn’t have big league political experience, Rob does have a pretty decent grasp of issues. He’s keenly interested in economics. “One reason for running in this election is the long term economic issues,” he emphasized. In regard to the environment, he believes we’re making progress, “but it’s painfully slow. We need to make humungous changes weekly.” Current reports of glaciers melting and threatening communities, destruction of fisheries, rising ocean levels, and other impending calamities make it clear his concerns are based on reality.

“We need strong leaders,” he added. “Trudeau didn’t do it. He bought a pipeline. Politicians aren’t telling people the reality. Talk is cheap.”

I asked about Green Party leader, Elizabeth May. “According to polls she’s the most respected party leader in the country,” he responded with enthusiasm. “She has twice been voted Parliamentarian of the Year by fellow MPs.”

Rob seems genuinely optimistic about his chances of doing well in the vote. “It’s important we get a bigger slice of the political pie.” He paused, then added, “That will enable us to be more effective in shaping policies.”

I’m not ready for a Donald Trump type of shake up in Canada, but there’s certainly room for more integrity and greater trust. On one matter particularly close to my own heart, the Liberals have performed dismally. Justin Trudeau and Chrystia Freeland have boasted about supporting the rights of women and children everywhere. They have made no discernible effort, however, to retrieve the approximately 250 Canadian children who have been abducted to other countries by one of their parents.

Would Andrew Sheer be a better fit as Prime Minister? In spite of recent massive expressions of concern by youths regarding the environment, his response has been lackluster.

Should we be looking to the Green Party to lead us in a better direction? I don’t know, but Robert Mellalieu would like an opportunity to demonstrate they are a viable alternative. At this time the odds are not in their favour, but then, Greta Thunberg started the present worldwide protest movement as one 15 year old girl standing outside the Swedish parliament.

Nick Conquers The Pacific Crest Trail

Nick conquered the Pacific Crest Trail.

When Linda and I stopped in Manning Park last week, my attention was immediately drawn to a young man standing alone beside an oversized back pack. His lean physique, black beard and the bulky pack suggested to me he wasn’t a casual camper. I introduced myself, then asked, “Have you been camping in the park?” “My name is Nick,” he said, “I’ve just come off the Pacific Crest Trail. I started at the Mexican-U.S. Border.”

I’ve encountered intrepid souls like Nick in the past and have invariably experienced a sharp twinge of envy. Although I’ve canoed, portaged and camped in rugged wilderness, in my mind the Pacific Crest Trail is like playing in the big leagues. According to the Pacific Crest Trail Association website, “The Trail traverses 4,286 km. (2,665 mi.), mostly in rugged remote wilderness. It rises to 4,009 m. (13,153 ft). You will be on your own and safety is your responsibility.”

“Dangers may include lightning strikes, cold weather, falling rock, swift flowing streams and wild animals. Also, there’s the possibility of encountering unfriendly men with guns guarding illegal cannabis grow sites along the way, especially in California. There may be no cell service for days, or weeks. There are basically no businesses, huts or facilities, and only minimal signage.”

The website offers essential advice for anyone wanting to challenge the Trail. “You can minimize risk with knowledge, equipment and planning. Take an orienteering class and carry paper maps and a compass. Never rely solely on digital devices. Sunscreen, lip balm, a sun hat, long sleeved shirts are also important. Carry and know how to use a decently stocked first aid kit. Take 2 lighters, matches in a waterproof container and fire starter for emergencies.” For anyone planning to hike the Trail, the website is a good place to start.

Nick’s accent prompted me to ask if he was from elsewhere, “Yes,” he replied. “My home is in Munich, Germany. I came especially to hike the trail. My first day was March 29. I hiked through 500 km. of snow in the Sierra mountains.” He said it matter of factly as though it had been an expected hurdle, not something to complain about.

Only age 22, Nick is beginning to challenge himself at a good time in his life. Prior to taking his first steps on the trail, he needed to do the extensive preparation, which included coping with the myriad expectations of U.S. bureaucracy. Hikers from other countries are usually interviewed by a representative of the U.S. State Department. In addition to complex hoops at the national level, hikers must also acquire permits to pass through some local jurisdictions. Due to the length of time and distance, it isn’t possible to carry enough food and other supplies for the entire expedition. Fortunately Nick, like other hikers, was able to arrange for shipments to gas stations and other places not far from the trail. One critical aspect of his preparation was to ensure he would be off the trail and out of the U.S. within the 6 months allowed by his passport. It was a lesson in detailed planning, preparation and persistence.

Nick’s words and demeanor told of the immense sense of fulfillment and victory he was experiencing. Talking with him reminded me of the brain cancer patient who said, “give yourself a chance. Live like you are living, not like you are dying.” It also reminded me of a time early in our marriage when Linda and I seriously contemplated cycling across Canada. What a great adventure and education that would have been! But we were diverted by the pressure of mortgage payments and other responsibilities. The cycling trip remained a dream.

Nick evidently had the vision and discipline to make his trek a reality. Almost certainly, like the brain cancer patient, he believed that to live a vibrant life it’s important to abandon the places where we are comfortable and feel safe. He was willing to take a chance, push his limits and explore his staying power. The Pacific Crest Trail was likely a life altering adventure. It’s a tad late for me, but I can, and do, rejoice that he had the courage and will to get it done.

Volunteer And Avoid A Lacklustre Life

Peggy Terry welcoming people & selling tickets at the pancake breakfast.

I have many times observed people smiling broadly, in some cases gently massaging stomachs, after enjoying the monthly pancake breakfast at the Hedley Seniors’ Centre.  A full breakfast includes 2 pancakes, 2 eggs and 2 sausages or strips of bacon. At $5.00 per plate, it’s a deal no restaurant can match. This month 140 patrons from all over the Similkameen Valley indulged. Popular and highly affordable, this meal is made possible by big hearted, unpaid local citizens, some well into the seventh decade or beyond. At the grill or scurrying about delivering plates of delicious hot food, they bring a note of cheer into the lives of their customers. Volunteers everywhere have this uplifting effect on their community.

When I heard that Peggy Terry, one of these stalwart community minded citizens has a for sale sign in front of her home and will soon leave Hedley, I wondered about the future of the pancake breakfast. I also experienced a twinge of anxiety for the Hedley Museum, Community Club, Fire Department and Hedley Improvement District (HID). As in most small towns, the doors of these organizations are kept open almost entirely by volunteers. They are a blessing to their community, but there are rarely enough of them. If too many younger individuals choose to remain uninvolved, will there be a pancake breakfast in 5 years? Will the museum continue to tell the story of our community’s past and serve lemon and apple pie and coffee? Will we have competent trustees in the HID? We need to be aware that everywhere many committed, contributing citizens like Peggy Terry are approaching an age when they will need to retire.

Recently Lynn Wells sent a letter to members of the Hedley community telling us we are needed to help at the Seniors’ Centre. She didn’t receive even one response. Is the next generation too immersed in personal pursuits to understand the benefits of accepting the baton that is being offered to them?

Very likely many people do not understand there are myriad benefits. Some are highly personal. The smile adorning Peggy’s face while greeting people arriving at the pancake breakfast suggests serving others gives her a joy that overrides even the significant discomforts of arthritis. In a recent conversation in our home she said, “I’ve had plenty of fun in my volunteer roles over the years, and I’ve met lots of great people.”

For young individuals volunteering can be an effective means of exploring career interests and giftings. It may opens doors to employment interviews. For me
volunteering set the direction for much of my entire career. While still a student at SFU I became a volunteer with an organization helping prison inmates prepare for re-entry into their community. In addition to interacting with inmates, I developed relationships with prison counsellors, custody officers, and parole officers. After graduating, a key position in the organization opened. The board of directors decided my experience and connections had prepared me for this role.

Serving our community offers opportunities to develop skills and understandings that enable us to go beyond our self imposed limits. I was still young and had much to learn when I was invited to become a member of the Matsqui Institution Citizens Advisory
Committee. The other members were already well established in careers. Among them were a realtor, radio broadcaster, and parole officer. Sitting in the prison board room with these seasoned individuals I learned some important lessons while negotiating with prisoners and with prison personnel. This early experience has helped me many times in other committee situations and in one-on-one interactions.

At times we may feel inadequate for a particular role. Anita Roddick, founder of “The Body Shop” counters this fear with the advice, “If you think you are too small to have an impact, try going to bed with a mosquito in the room.”

For individuals trapped in unfulfilling employment or lacklustre retirement, volunteer service can be uplifting emotionally and psychologically. In “Tribe”, Sebastian Junger says, “Humans don’t mind hardship, in fact they thrive on it. What they do mind is not feeling necessary.” In Hedley, and almost certainly in every Similkameen community, there exist an abundance of challenging, important roles that will help us feel necessary. Now that the summer sun is no longer luring us to the beaches, it’s a great time to expand our horizons and create communities people enjoy.

Free Helicopter Rides In Hedley

Gary Lecomte of Hedley,
a generous citizen.

It’s virtually unheard of for anyone to offer free helicopter rides to fellow citizens, but Gary Lecomte of Hedley has been doing it for several years. When I heard it would be happening again this past Saturday, I went to the ball park where the chopper would alight and take on passengers.

I found Gary, age 74, sitting on a concrete curb, seemingly not intending to go up himself. When I asked about this he said, “I’ve been doing this for years. I do it to make people happy. I won’t fly today.”

The chopper was provided by Eclipse Helicopters of Penticton and flown by veteran pilot Derek Robinson. Company engineer, Joshua Tomlin, was also present. In total there were four flights, each of about fifteen minutes duration. Passengers were given a quick tour up and down the Similkameen Valley, then were treated to a close-up view of the Mascot Mine and the open pit Nickel Plate mine. The cost to Gary is $21OO per hour. The entire event lasted about 2 hours, including flying to and from Hedley. “It’s just money,” Gary said. Once again he emphasized, “I just want people to be happy. The town has been good to me and I want to give something back.” He’s been battling a health challenge for several years and seems to have gained an understanding of what is genuinely important.

Talking with Josh while waiting for the first flight to return, I learned that helicopters are pretty pricey. “Our company has 4 choppers,” Josh said. “This one is about 2.5 million new. Replacing just the motor runs at approximately half a million. The three rotor blades are $90,000 per blade.” It makes a Lexus seem inexpensive.

A couple of children, about age 4, were on the first flight. When they disembarked I asked if they had enjoyed the ride. They seemed to have been quite overwhelmed by the experience. Neither answered my question. I’m not sure they even heard or saw me.

Nineteen individuals took advantage of the free ride offer, including one woman who said, “flying in a helicopter has been on my bucket list for years.”