The Grahams of Hedley

Maggie Graham Pitkethly (photo taken in 1970)

Over the years I’ve heard plenty of speculation by Hedley oldtimers as to how Bill and Maggie Graham found the means to purchase the Colonial Inn after the mine closed. Maggie had worked as a housekeeper for the mine. Bill had operated an ore crusher in the Stamp Mill at the base of the mountain. It was generally known they had not come with money. Since none of the speculations could be verified, I decided they were a rural version of urban myth.

When I learned recently the Grahams’ daughter Maureen and her husband Campbell Dirksen live in Keremeos, I immediately called them and asked if they would talk with Linda and me.

In their comfortable home with a spectacular view of the valley and mountains, we enjoyed Maureen’s rich blend of coffee and delightful blueberry scones. We would learn she and Campbell have an impressive grasp of details from the past.

My dad, Bill Graham came from Scotland,” Maureen told us at the outset. “Mom was born in Hedley in 1909, in the house that still stands at the corner of Daly and Irene. Her father, Anton Winkler, owned several hotels, including the Grand Union, one of 6 in town. Over the years all burned down. My parents were married in 1935.”

The Inn was purchased first by Dr. Moore, a dentist who used it for his practice. When the mine shut down operations in 1955, the miners mostly moved on. Having few clients in town, Dr. Moore sold the Inn to the Grahams about a year and a half later.

Where did they get that amount of money?” I asked, hoping they could shed light on this local mystery.

Dad asked the Kelowna Exploration Company for permission to clean up the dust left behind from the mining operation,” Maureen said. “He was the only one who thought there must be gold in that dust. They gave him a profit sharing contract.”

Campbell picked up the story. “With a broom and wheel barrow, he swept up the dust in the Stamp Mill. He removed the floor boards and swept under them. All told, he collected enough dust to fill 8 tram line cars. He had it sent by train from Princeton to Everett, Washington. It took 3 years.”

It turned out there was a lot of gold in all that dust,” Maureen recalled. “Even after the mine got its share, my parents were able to buy the Inn and also send me and my brother to college in Vancouver.”

Bill and Maggie ran the Inn as a lodge and restaurant. Maureen has warm memories of working in the kitchen with her red headed, vivacious Mom. “She taught me everything I know. I baked 12 loaves of bread every day. People wanted to buy them but we needed them all. Our blueberry pies were very popular. We received letters from all over the world from satisfied guests.”

Famous people like Bob Hope, Bing Crosby, Governor Generals, and former Saskatchewan premier Tommy Douglas came by for a meal and sometimes stayed overnight.

One time Bing Crosby said we should have a juke box. Mom teased him, saying she wouldn’t have any Bing Crosby records in it anyway. She was good with people. Very friendly and she always remembered names of guests when they returned. She often picked up hitch hikers and brought them to the restaurant and gave them a meal. Sometimes she put them up overnight.”

Eight years after buying the Inn, the Grahams also acquired the Coach House, located at the rear of the property, near the Stamp Mill. “People were removing doors and windows and other items,” Campbell said. “It required a lot of repairs.” Unfortunately in 1971, Kelowna Exploration Co. had the iconic stamp mill burned due to liability concerns.

Bill died of cancer in 1968. About 5 years later Maggie married David Pitkethly, a wealthy businessman who stopped regularly for a meal at the Colonial Inn.

In July, 1975 Maggie and Maureen were collecting rocks on a mountainside. Without warning, a large boulder broke loose above them and came hurtling down toward the two women. Without thought for her own safety, Maggie pushed Maureen out of its path. She didn’t have time to get out of the way herself and was killed instantly.

At the end of our conversation with the Dirksens, Linda and I were convinced Bill and Maggie Graham played a significant role in Similkameen history. Their story is authentic, not an urban or rural myth.

9 thoughts on “The Grahams of Hedley”

  1. I worked for Maggie and Maureen when I was in High School she was the best boss I ever had she taught me so much. She was strict with us but always fair she had a wonderful sense of humor we worked hard but had so much fun they do not make that type of person anymore.

  2. I really appreciate reading this article about my aunt ( my mom’s sister ) and uncle… I think some of the dates may be a bit off, but reasonably close anyway… I have fond memories of the Colonial Lodge when I was young. After Uncle Bill passed away my dad worked for Aunt Maggie doing yard work etc to help out…I stayed there 1 summer while I worked my first job ever, at the Keremeos Fruit Packing Plant. I think I was 14 or 15 years old. I also recall Maggie cutting my hair with an electric razor…lol…We ate extremely good …The Lodge was always full of people…The Grahams were definately a big part of the Hedley History that make me proud to say that I am related to…

  3. Very interesting on the significant history the Grahams had in the Similkameen valley, David Pitkethley also from Scotland , had a very significant history both there and in Vancouver. He was directly responsible for bringing our family to Canada. I remember meeting Margaret only a few times but was always interested in the connection between her and my great uncle.

  4. Hello Art,

    Your story was sent to me by Twyla, the daughter of Maureen, who was a nursing colleague of mine.
    I am writing a story about Twyla – who was in the truck and witnessed the dates of her grandmother on that fateful day in 1975. I would like your permission to use part of your article in which i tell her personal story – from tragedy to transformation – a story of resilience. I am entering it in the CBC nonfiction contest due Feb 28th. I have permission from Maureen.
    many thanks,

    Cheers,
    Sue

    1. You’re welcome to use any part of the blog I wrote about the Graham family, Sue. I wish you luck in the contest!
      Art

  5. Hello! Love your story! It’s amazing you found Maureen and were able to get some answers! What a story!! We came across them at the Hedley cemetery and then did some research and found your story❤️ We are making a video about and Hedley and were wondering if we could use portions of it and credit them to you? I just want to thank you to for taking the time to track them down too, your story was one of only a few we were able to uncover!
    Sincerely, Chyanne and Adam

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