My Story Revisited #8

When I completed my interviews with inmates and staff at Matsqui Institution, plus a good deal of reading, I wrote the paper detailing my findings concerning inmate culture. As requested at the outset, I gave prison Superintendent Doug McGregor a copy. He was at his desk when I entered his office, his white shirt open at the top button as usual. I told him about M2W2 and inquired about bringing the program into Matsqui. He asked, “do you consider this to be the answer to recidivism?”

I’d had several discussions with Doug over the past three months and felt he was genuinely open to new approaches. Almost certainly he wanted also to assess the level of understanding our organization had concerning prisoners and their rehabilitation. “At the beginning of my experience at Oakalla,” I replied, “I naively thought that surely friendship with a reputable citizen would persuade a man that life offers a much richer experience than crime and prison.

I thought it might be pretty straight forward and simple. Now I’m beginning to understand that in most cases releasing a man from prison doesn’t also release him from his criminal thinking.” Doug leaned forward, listening intently, not interrupting.

Our sponsors do offer friendship,” I continued. “We consider it a critical component in rebuilding anyone’s life, whether in prison or in the community. We assign a trustworthy man to sponsor one inmate. The sponsor typically visits the inmate once every two weeks, more often if he chooses to. When the man becomes eligible for passes to the community, the sponsor may invite him to his home to meet his family and enjoy a meal. He will also introduce the man to people in the community. This helps him feel more at ease with law abiding citizens when he is released. We do recognize, however, that our approach is only one aspect of the solution.”

About a week later Ray Coles, the M2W2 executive director at that time, met with Doug and several senior prison staff. At this meeting we were given the green light to bring the program to Matsqui Institution.

Ray Coles asked me to develop the Matsqui program. This was a volunteer position and I continued operating a front end loader and driving a dump truck, as I had on a part time basis during the SFU years. Working with the prison’s community liaison director, I scheduled a “get acquainted” meeting, which was attended by 21 inmates.

When I entered the room, my attention was immediately drawn to a squat, burly man sitting at the rear of the room. With thick arms folded tightly across his barrel chest, and a skeptical frown on his face, his appearance was intimidating. Had he come to disrupt?

In spite of my apprehensions, the meeting produced no fireworks, only a lot of questions. None from the burly dour man in the back row. When I received a stack of eleven applications for a sponsor, I was surprised to see that this man, Roy, had applied. I was pleased but not surprised to note that Albert, the grey haired man in the hobby shop also wanted a friend from outside the fences.

I immediately began searching for men with a track record of integrity. Men who would commit irrevocably to a relationship and follow through. The inmates we’d be working with had been deceived and lied to much of their lives. We wanted to show them another, more fulfilling way to live.

Often I approached a man individually, explained the program and invited him to visit an inmate with me. The men I hoped to enlist usually already had a full schedule, but almost without exception, they accompanied me and I introduced them to a man not receiving visits. Among the community men were Andy, a top selling realtor, Rudy, a senior secondary school teacher and coach, and Reinhart, a successful entrepreneur. There were also tradesmen, farmers, laborers and retirees. After visiting a man behind bars with me, they were almost invariably hooked. Sponsoring an inmate seemingly provided them with a sense of mission.

It would prove to be a challenging mission. For young inmates especially, life in prison was a boot camp in crime that indoctrinated them with criminal thinking and attitudes. These had become deeply lodged in their subconscious and governed their responses to knotty life issues. The men we sent into prison would need to learn patience, seek wisdom and discernment, and exercise resolve. When it became extra tough, some sponsors elected to look up and request a divine spark of inspiration and guidance.

My Story Revisited #9

Inmates at Matsqui Institution were doing federal time (sentences of two years or more). Often this longer time span enabled inmates and sponsors to develop relationships where there was a measure of trust. We found that when these caged men grasped that their sponsor was a friend, they considered this an opportunity to divulge long hidden secrets from what was almost invariably a sordid past.

Accounts of turbulent family dynamics frequently dismayed us. They also helped us understand why their history was so cluttered with bitterness, anger and despair. Turmoil in their home had denied them an opportunity to lay the foundation for a stable future. Because I interviewed each inmate who applied for a sponsor, I heard chilling stories sufficient to crush a man’s spirit.

Listening to these men, I realized my childhood home had been a safe haven. I was sustained by an abundance of encouragement, love and a tranquil atmosphere. I never returned home knowing my dad would give me a beating for being out too late. Realizing that most sponsors had been blessed with a similarly peaceful upbringing, I wondered how we could possibly bridge the emotional and psychological chasm that stretched like a minefield between us.

Roy, who had sat at the back of the room with arms crossed in the first meeting, had not fared well from his earliest days. His father had been a small time crook, shunted from one prison to another, just bumping purposelessly through life. He had married a second time and the step mother developed an immediate and intense dislike for Roy. She hounded his father relentlessly to disown him. The lack of constructive attention by his father, who couldn’t stay out of prison, and the toxic harassment by his step mother convinced Roy he was worthless. Unwise decisions and actions had persuaded him all he could look forward to was more painful, demoralizing stumbles. He had come to view life through a bleak distorted prism.

It was the hope of our organization that by providing an inmate with a friend in the local community, he would begin to believe life offered more than a series of failures. To this end I matched Roy with Walter, a successful poultry farmer. Walter and Helen immediately began including Roy in their family activities.

Like most men we sponsored, Roy became surprisingly protective of our organization. He didn’t want to besmirch our reputation by escaping while on a pass with Walter. Recognizing this, Matsqui decision makers granted him a number of passes. Walter and family took him along to social events, community functions, church services, and more. Roy especially enjoyed Helen’s invitations to dinner in their home.

In a conversation with Walter and myself, Roy referred to the step mother’s attempts to dislodge him from the family. “My father was in the slammer too much to ever get around to disowning me,” he recalled, “but my stepmother was a determined scheming woman. She made life unbearable for me. When I was eleven I started running away and stealing. I was placed in one detention centre after another.”

He paused a moment as though trying to decide if he should say more. Then, with a rueful grin he added, “I guess you could say that in the end she did get what she wanted.”

Roy’s life trajectory was similar to that of many inmates, although the details often differed. As a child and youth his spirit had been crushed repeatedly by rejection, neglect and failure. Now in an adult body, in many ways he was still just a confused kid. The years behind bars and fences had given him the mental and emotional tools to survive and thrive in confinement, but not in the larger society. He was desperately attempting to claw his way out of the fog that engulfed him. He craved the freedom and sense of fulfillment he recognized in people beyond the fences.

As sponsors we knew this would be a journey with many pitfalls. We would have to grow in maturity and inner strength, so that in us the men we sponsored would have a credible example of how to achieve a fulfilling life.

 

 

My Story Revisited #7

Man Smoking a Cigarette
photo by Ellen Carlson Hanse at Unsplash

Prior to beginning my final semester at SFU I asked Doug McGregor, Superintendent at Matsqui Institution, for permission to do research into inmate culture in the prison. An innovator with a keen, inquisitive intellect, he was putting his reputation on the line by experimenting with Temporary Absences. He asked a series of penetrating questions and I realized that without the Oakalla experience, I might have seemed totally naive. For me it was a lesson in the importance of preparation. Doug agreed to my request and once I had gained credibility, I was given access to most areas of the prison.

For three months I interviewed men doing time for serious crimes including murder, drug trafficking, fraud and armed robbery. Knowing my life experiences differed substantively from theirs, I was concerned initially the inmates might view me with suspicion, possibly as a spy for the Administration. I was gratified to learn that most welcomed the opportunity to dialogue with someone from outside the confining perimeter fences. They seemed to consider me non-threatening, a diversion from the stultifying prison routines. Also important to me was the tolerance of the guards, especially once they were convinced I wouldn’t aid inmates in circumventing regulations.

I did most of the interviews in a small, sparsely furnished office that was also occasionally used by attorneys. One exception was several conversations with Albert, a chain smoking, grey haired inmate doing time for heroin possession and trafficking. About age 65, he had seen the uninspiring insides of prisons across Canada. Having mellowed over many years of soul numbing incarceration, he was now trusted with running the prison hobby shop. It was here I came upon him alone, sitting on a stool at his work table, a meticulously rolled cigarette tightly clenched between his lips. Tailor made smokes were beyond his financial means, but guards at times slipped him one when they entered his realm for a cup of strong brewed coffee.

In my first encounter with Albert he readily agreed to talk, but kept me waiting while he removed the nearly spent cigarette dangling between his lips and carefully selected a fresh one. The passing of time apparently meant little to him. I sensed he was using these brief moments to study me. His years in prisons had taught him there were pitfalls in too easily trusting strangers. He felt no urgency to hurry.

After chatting casually a few minutes, his face and voice indicated he felt at ease with me. Toward the end of this initial conversation I asked him about the impact of prisons on his life. He had not yet lit the smoke and the question seemed to have diverted his awareness of its presence between his lips. When he spoke after a lengthy silence, I sensed he was reflecting not only his own inner rancor and regret but also that harboured by most inmates. His voice conveyed remorse at the lost years in the unyielding system holding him in its iron fisted clutches.

Often when I’m lying in my drum at night waiting for sleep,” he said, “I think about the relationships I once had. The family and friends who became impatient with visiting in prison, frequently through a glass or screen partition.” There was a gnawing despair in his voice and his face seemed to age as he reflected on the wasted years.

I’ve done a little reading about how the penitentiary system got started,” he said. Pausing to consider, he remembered the unlit cigarette and struck a match to light it. “Prisons were meant to provide law breakers with a quiet place to reflect, away from temptation,” he continued. “A place to think about the direction of their lives, and make changes. But the present system only warehouses us. It doesn’t give us the understanding or ability to live successfully outside the fences. In prison there is nothing worth striving for. We exist but we have no purpose. They want us to change so we’ll think like them. In my case it’s too late. Prisons have molded my mind to think like a con. The fences and regulations have shrunk my inner world so it’s all I know.”

Albert paused to take a protracted drag from the cigarette, then said, “I’ve had opportunities for work, even for marriage, but heroin has a strangle hold on my brain. Prisons haven’t helped me fight it. When I’m released,” he mused, “I’ll catch a bus to ‘the corner’ in Vancouver and get a fix. If I’m lucky, I might have a year before I’m back. It’s the only life I know. Until they let me out I’ll just sit on this stool, roll cigarettes and smoke one after the other.”

I didn’t know it yet but our lives would intersect again before long.

My Speech at Hedley’s 125 Celebration

“Mr. Iverson”, beards were a requirement to enter the contest. (photo by Keith Dallamore)

The speech below was delivered at Hedley’s 125 Anniversary celebration, and also at the Canada Day festivities. Male speakers were required to sport a beard, ladies needed to wear apparel reflecting the early years.

Good Evening Ladies and Gents,

My name is Iverson. If you don’t recognize me, it’s because I’m new to these parts.

When I heard gold had been discovered here in your fair community, I jumped on the first stage and arrived late last night. If you’re wondering why I came and why the rush, it’s because I knew men would have jobs and money. There would be ample opportunities for anyone in my profession.

I suppose you might be thinking I don’t look like I’d be a good miner, so am I here to establish a brothel? No, neither of these are my reason for coming. I’m actually a professional gambler. Been at it a long time.

In the beginning I lost many a paycheck from my day job. With time though, I learned to read faces and now the paychecks of other gamblers most often end up in my pockets.

Are you thinking by now I’m just a greedy old man who has come to take money from your hardworking miners? Well, I have a little story to tell you.

Just last week I was in the smoky back room of a hotel, setting up to do some gambling, as is my practise. I looked up and saw a big man enter the room and start toward my table. I observed him carefully and guessed he was in his late thirties. His stooped shoulders and a cough suggested to me he had worked underground many years. He had the appearance of a man down on his luck.

My name is Barney,” he said. “I have a missus and half a dozen young’uns. The mine pays me enough to cover the rent, put food on the table and buy clothes and shoes for the family, but not much more. Two of the young’uns are ill, and I don’t have money to buy medicine. I haven’t ever gambled but I’m ready to start today.”

Listening to Barney and observing him, I wanted to change his mind. “Barney, glad to meet you,” I said, “my name is Iverson. I see you have an honest face and your body tells me you’re a hard worker. I have to tell you this is not a good idea. If you sit down at this table, by midnight your money will be in my pocket. Don’t do it.”

Inspite of my words, he lowered his big frame into the chair across from me and said, “Mr. Iverson, I don’t have no choice.”

He was desperate and determined, so I started dealing and Barney started losing. Half an hour later I asked if he wanted to quit, but as is so often the case, he hoped his luck would change. As I had warned him, by midnight his money was in my pockets. Totally dejected, he got up to leave.

Barney,” I said, “I’ll be in the hotel cafe at 10 tomorrow morning. If you join me, I’ll buy you a big breakfast.”

I didn’t expect Barney to show up but when I arrived at the cafe he was already at the entrance, waiting for me. His haggard face told me he had slept little. We entered and he ordered ham and fried spuds. I was sure he had an appetite for much more, so I said to the waitress, “My friend works hard. Add some flapjacks, toast, and three eggs. And please leave us a pot of coffee.”

We chatted until the food arrived. Then Barney ate hungrily, like a man who hasn’t had a good meal in weeks. The toast and ham, however, he wrapped in a napkin. “For my family,” he explained. When we had finished eating he pushed his plate aside and leaned forward. “Thanks for the breakfast Mr. Iverson,” he said, “ and thanks for trying to stop me from gambling. When I told my missus I’d lost our money, she wept half the night. You won’t see me at your table again. I was just a doggone fool last night.”

These were the words I had hoped to hear. I reached into my shirt pocket and withdrew an envelope. “Barney, here’s the money you lost, plus an extra hundred,” I said. “Use it to buy the medicines your youngsters need, and whatever else you decide.”

He hadn’t expected this, and his hand trembled as he accepted the envelope. “Thanks, Mr. Iverson,” he said, with little more than a whisper. As he turned away, I saw him brush tears from his cheeks. If he had looked back, he would have seen that I was also brushing tears from my cheeks.

My Story Revisited #6, First Steps

Oakalla Prison Farm, Heritage Burnaby

I have come to have enormous regard for the power of “first steps,” especially decisions and actions that propel us into unfamiliar, challenging territory. In novels the protagonist is often faced at the outset with a decision that will require courage, possibly combat with unsavoury characters. Linda and I had taken an important first step when we purchased a home and five acres just prior to getting married. This ensured that we would always have a home, but after that there had been a dearth of inspiring decisions or actions.

This began to change when we left our jobs and lived in a tent in Cariboo wilderness for three months. For us this was another venture into the unknown. Deciding I should attend university was also a first step. To this time we had focused on paying off the mortgage, certainly not on contemplating exciting adventures.

Goethe in 1828, by Joseph Karl Stieler, Wikipedia

At SFU my thinking began to expand. A quote by Johann Wolfgang von Goethe nudged me to attempt more.

He said, Whatever you can do or dream, you can begin it. Boldness has genius, power and magic in it.”

I received further inspiration from the words of William Hutchison Murray. He wrote, “the moment one definitely commits oneself, then Providence moves too. All sorts of things occur to help one that would otherwise never have occurred. A whole stream of events issues from the decision raising in one’s favor all manner of unforeseen incidents and meetings and material assistance which no man could have dreamt would have come his way.”

For me, here was magic and although I didn’t fully grasp its power or significance, I wanted to explore it. In my first year at SFU, I learned that a recently minted organization was looking for volunteers to visit prisoners in Oakalla. Intrigued, I attended an introductory meeting in the prison. Dick Simmons, an American, had already launched M2/W2 (Man to Man, Woman to Woman), in a Seattle prison. He was at this meeting and explained that a citizen from the community would be matched with an inmate on a one to one basis. The “sponsor” would visit every two weeks with the goal of developing a relationship of trust.

Most of the prisoners accepted into the program were not not receiving visits and did not have support in the community. The sponsor would become the inmate’s connection to the world outside prison and would help with finding work and making the difficult adjustment to life in the community.

I had always regarded Oakalla as austere and forbidding. Our tour of Westgate B didn’t change my thinking. When that large solid metal door clanged shut behind us I felt we had entered an alien world. Disconsolate grey clad men were wandering about on the tier, with no discernible purpose. Some were in their cell, surrounded by steel bars. I wasn’t at all confident I had the experience or wisdom to find a common ground with these listless men existing like animals in this barren environment. Even so, I signed on.

Sponsoring at Oakalla would be another first step. I found that these men suffered from a deficit of interests and knowledge. Many had dropped out of school before graduating. Often after numerous stints in prison, relationships with family and friends had disintegrated. They complained about the food, being hassled by guards, the regulations, the unfairness of their confinement. They had learned to be distrustful, even of each other. Interactions with the “bulls”, as the inmates frequently referred to them, were not uplifting. The guards viewed their charges as devious and not to be believed or trusted.

I didn’t know it yet but there would be other prisons and other prisoners in my future. Oakalla provided me with some understanding of what I could expect from prisoners and from those hired to ensure they did not escape. By taking the first step of sponsoring men at Oakalla I gained experience and understandings that would give me a measure of credibility with those doing time and also with those in positions of authority. I didn’t realize yet that taking this first step would open doors to other prisons and to other opportunities to help men catch a more positive vision of who they could become.

 

 

 

Hedley Celebrates 125 Years

Terry & Cindy Regier,
Terry organized the outhouse race, Cindy was one of the main event organizers. (Photo Gerry Wilkin)

Hedley’s main street was crowded with people and vendors as the community celebrated its 125th birthday this past weekend. For most of those exploring the town, visiting the museum, looking for mementos, and eating delicious food, there was an abundance of joy and excitement. Some returning after years away experienced a palpable sense of nostalgia. The community has a rich and colorful history that old timers and newcomers are eager to preserve.

The celebration began with a wine and cheese event Friday evening, followed Saturday morning by the community’s best parade in many years. Led by Hedley’s Fire Department and a Princeton police cruiser, there were approximately 30 entrants. Dancing ladies in colorful old time dresses were a crowd favorite. The ladies weren’t young but they had attractive moves and the energy of 20 year olds. Even young men took notice.

TJ Bratt, Edveena, & Shirley Grant. TJ was the other main event organizer. (photo Gerry Wilkin)

Rousing music by members of the Vancouver Traveling Band added to the festive atmosphere.

Vancouver Traveling Band leader, Harry Peterson, born in Hedley, 1948. (photo Gerry Wilkin)

The newly minted Hedley Relics Car Club had a number of shiny well groomed entries.

Hedley Relics (photo Gerry Wilkin)

Not so shiny were two tractors driven by Stirling Creek ranch hand Trevor Nolin and his son Hunter. These are working tractors and the 1942 Ford ran as smoothly as though it had just rolled out of the factory. The 1940 McCormick is rugged and powerful but showing its age. Outhouses on wheels drew much comment and speculation. At the end of the long line were two riders on horses. Many spectators considered the parade a highlight.

Horses on main street
(Gillian Welton)

Food was on the minds of many revellers. All 140 tickets for the Saturday night dinner had been quickly snapped up and procrastinators had to visit a street vendor or the Hedley Country market.

Dinner was prepared by a caterer and served by volunteers, both women and men. Due to the numbers, volunteers needed to operate in high gear and were exhausted when all guests had been served and the clean up completed.

Margaret Skaar delivering her winning Hedley Ambassador speech.(photo Gillian Welton)

After dinner many in the crowd moved to the Community Hall for the Hedley Ambassador speech contest. Speeches focused on life as experienced 125 years ago. Dressed in attire common at that time, Margaret Skaar, age 81, won first place. Her speech was about a woman who emigrated from Britain to BC with her two young children many years ago. She now has the distinction of being a Hedley Ambassador. After the speeches, chairs were moved and people danced to music provided by the “Howling Coyotes”.

Sunday morning the food servers rose early to offer the Hedley Centre’s popular pancake breakfast. For the bargain price of eight dollars, people received two eggs, two sausages or strips of bacon, pancakes and coffee. Those who planned to attend a special service in Hedley’s little church at 9:30 arrived early and were fed promptly. Sleeping in turned out to be a bad idea. Demand was so strong, breakfast was still being served at noon. When a man asked about lunch, a weary volunteer replied firmly, “No, we’re done!” After their yeoman efforts Saturday night and Sunday morning, this was quite understandable.

In one-to-one conversations, several individuals talked about experiences with the mine. Two sisters, Sheila Maurer and Sandra Hemrick, had moved with their parents to Hedley in 1943. Their father, Lawrence Smillie served as mine manager until 1955 when the gold petered out and he shut down the mine.

Carl Lofroth recalled living as a child with his parents at Central, the halfway switching point high on the tram line. His father regulated the ore cars hauling ore to the Stamp Mill below. Now a senior, Carl still has vivid memories.

Young dancers posing in their regalia. (photo Gillian Welton)

An Upper Similkameen Indian Band cultural event at their headquarters featured exuberant children in colourful regalia dancing to the beat of a booming drum. Free very delicious bannock enticed many visitors to indulge. The atmosphere was congenial and welcoming.

Outhouses at the starting line. (photo by Gillian Welton)

Final item on the very full weekend was the eagerly awaited outhouse races. Six entrants lined up on Daly Avenue for the approximately 100 meter mad dash to the finish line at the museum. Those pushing the outhouses displayed amazing gusto and there were many cheers and laughs. At the end of the race riders pulled strenuously on a rope to ring the museum’s big bell.

This marked the end of the celebration but people lingered, still savouring this remarkable weekend. Ken Knutson expressed the sentiment of many when he said “there was magic.” Primary organizers TJ (Terri-Jo) Bratt and Cindy Regier were tired but ecstatic. “A lot of dedicated volunteers made it a great success,” they agreed.

Friends of Mennonite Centre Ukraine Update #107

When we received the recent update from the Friends of the Mennonite Centre in Ukraine, I asked myself “what is the responsibility of people in affluent western nations? Are we doing all we can if we think of them, support our government’s contribution of armaments and medical supplies, maybe even pray for them? Do each of us have a personal responsibility?”

My dad left me with an example that has influenced my thinking concerning these questions. After my mother passed away he continued their practise of tithing. Also, each month when he received his pension cheque, he walked from his apartment to the Abbotsford Mennonite Central Committee (MCC) office and gave them fifty dollars. “I want this to go toward feeding hungry children,” he always told them. His income was limited but he lived frugally so he would be able to do this. Linda’s parents were also faithful in giving to people in need.

Linda and I became aware of the Friends of the Mennonite Centre through a friend we respect highly. A cardiologist, he has travelled to Ukraine many times at his own expense on behalf of the organization to deliver medical equipment and share expertise. The Centre has long worked with local partner organizations, including churches. These people have an intimate understanding of the needs of individuals and communities. With the exception of a few Centre staff, the work is done by volunteers.

Linda and I are continuing to provide some of the Centre’s updates (disbursed by George Dyck) because this is an organization that is guided by individuals of integrity, making a significant difference. Their commitment comes not from being remunerated, but from a desire to stand by suffering people.

Catastrophic results of the destruction of the Kakhovka Dam!

The catastrophic results of the destruction of the Kakhovka Dam are horrific! Here is Olga’s response:

I cannot help but talk about the destruction of the Kakhovka hydropower plant in Kherson oblast. I will keep my emotions. You have yours and I don’t want to add to that. The catastrophe speaks for itself.

Dozens of villages are under water.

Nobody can, at this point, describe the exact consequences of the event. Dozens of villages are under water. The irrigation systems are destroyed. Thousands of hectares of fertile farmland are underwater without a hope to be restored in the near future.

Fertile farmland under water.

Many cities are without water supply. Mass death of fish. And the most threatening thing – the level of the water above the destroyed dam is dropping. And, the Zaporizhzhya nuclear power station, the biggest nuclear power station in Europe, needs water for cooling. And it is under Russian occupation. I feel so helpless at times…”

Olga was in immediate contact with our partner organizations, assuring them that support from the Mennonite Centre will be available for people having to flee from their homes due to the flooding.

In Shiroke (Neuendorf) the community was advised to prepare for many people arriving from Kherson.

If you wish to donate to help the needy, then please visit our website http://www.mennonitecentre.ca/ and click on the donate tab. To donate by e-transfer please use the email address gtdyck@gmail.com and please include your postal address in a note accompanying the transfer so I can issue a tax receipt to you.

Thank you!!

Academic and Life Influencers #5

An influential book published by Oxford Press in 1956.
(wikipedia photo)

Some of my fellow students at SFU were working toward a fairly precise goal. They wanted to be teachers, doctors, corporate leaders, etc. For them university was a preparation for a specific profession. For me SFU was also a time of preparation, I just didn’t yet know where it would lead. Because of this, I still could not entirely shake a gnawing sense of uncertainty, much like a man with a blindfold shooting a a target he knows is there, but cannot see. I knew only I could not turn back. I must have faith that there would be a positive outcome. Not having a specific occupational objective, I hoped the courses I enrolled in would provide a solid basis for future employment.

I enjoyed courses like English, history and psychology, but it was PSA (political science, sociology and anthropology) that captivated my interest. Several radical left wing professors were particularly influential. Their personalities, lectures, passion and commitment persuaded me to re-examine and re-evaluate what I had learned in elementary and high school.

There had been a preponderance of emphasis given to British history, values, political systems, societal structures and much more. Beginning with King John signing the Magna Carta under duress from Barons at Runnymede in 1215, I had learned about the slow march to the achievement of voting rights and what we now think of as democracy. Only much later did I learn that after the Barons departed, the King persuaded the Pope to declare the agreement invalid. It was a case of those in positions of power collaborating to ensure their authority remained intact .

I was raised in a conservative culture. My parents and most of their friends were staunch supporters of W.A.C. Bennett, leader of the B.C. Social Credit Party and premier from 1952-1972. As a teen I at times attended political meetings and rallies with my father. When I was old enough to vote I faithfully followed my parents’ example.

A variety of societal influences had engendered in me an implicit trust in our national and provincial governments, but now I was becoming vaguely aware of what appeared to be a lack of integrity at higher echelons of Canadian society. I had been attracted to SFU in part because of its reputation for challenging embedded ideas. Upon arriving on campus I quickly became immersed in a cauldron of restless dissatisfaction. The radical professors espoused unflattering views of the political and societal universe. Lectures and also books on the reading lists began expanding my awareness and understanding of social and political dynamics.

C Wright Mills, for many years a professor at Columbia University, very effectively challenged my thinking in “The Power Elite” (1956). He contended that military, economic and political leaders share deeply interwoven interests. He suggested that ordinary citizens are relatively powerless and subject to manipulation. Mills argued for public and political engagement rather than complacent observation.

I was also influenced by sociologist John Porter’s “The Vertical Mosaic” (1965), the first comprehensive study of the national structure of class and power in Canada. Prior to this time, conventional wisdom had been that Canada was an egalitarian society where people from all backgrounds could succeed. Porter presented statistical data regarding enormous inequities of income, wealth and occupational opportunities in Canada.

My perspective on life in Canada changed in that first year at SFU. The change was tempered by the fact I had grown up in a stable home and culture. Men gravitated to trades, farming, teaching, business etc. It was a time when many women stayed at home, raising children, preparing meals, participating in a club or church. Some held jobs like teaching, nursing or secretarial work. People reached out to those in need.

As a teen the most significant influence on my thinking was my father. He owned a large bulldozer and in summers I went to work with him. At that time the Fraser Valley was still largely covered by trees and he did a lot of land clearing. He taught me how to blow large stumps out of the ground with 20 per cent dynamite, set effective fires to large stump piles, run a change saw, operate the cat, and much more. His honesty, diligence, patience and skill with equipment captured my respect. I never referred to him as “the old man.”

Looking back now I highly value the academic education I received at SFU. I also value the life education Linda and I received from our parents and their friends. It was a combination that provided essential ingredients for a fulfilling life.

Friends of Mennonite Centre Ukraine Update #101

When Russian forces crossed the border into Ukraine I felt it was clearly an unjustified invasion. I’ve been surprised to learn that several close friends disagree. They believe Russia had to make this move because it doesn’t want a NATO presence on its border. When the USSR folded they say, The West committed to not extend NATO to include Ukraine. Some of those following this reasoning seem to side with Russia in its destruction of Ukraine. I have several questions for those who present this argument.

Can we deny Ukrainians the right to defend their country? They have memories, or have been told of the ransacking of their country by the Red Army during Stalin’s brutal regime. Stalin took their grain and other foods in a deliberate strategy to starve the people. Many thousands of Ukrainians were killed for resisting. Others were sent to the Gulag and were never seen or heard from again.

In the current war Russian forces are targeting apartment buildings, malls, railway stations, etc. They have demolished villages and cities. Homes are being destroyed, leaving families without shelter. The land is being devastated, ensuring there will be less food production in the future. We’re also receiving reports of parents hiding their children because they fear the Russian army will abduct them and send them to Russia for adoption. Vladimer Putin seems to have taken a page from Stalin’s playbook.

My concern is for the Ukrainian and Russian men who are being slaughtered or maimed. My concern is also for families who are losing loved ones, homes, their sense of security and much more.

To this time I’ve posted a couple of updates provided by the Friends of Mennonite Centre Ukraine. They have for many years provided basic necessities and have a longstanding connection with people who already had serious needs before the war. Those are much greater now. We hope you will find time to read the update below.

Mennonite Centre in Molochansk, Ukraine Update #101 May 6, 2023

Here is what we are hearing this morning …

Near Melitopol, people are hiding their children from the occupying Russians.

The Russians are forcing the parents to take their children out of schools and kindergartens and send them to Berdiansk to the south on the Sea of Avoz coast. This will not be their final destination. Afterwards, the children are to be taken to Mariupol and then to Rostov in Russia.

The parents do not want to send the children away and hide them because they know it will be very hard to find them in Russia.

The Russians threaten the parents that if they don’t let the children go, then the government’s financial assistance will be withdrawn from them. The Russians are fierce and screaming that the Ukrainian offence starts tomorrow. This is the situation in Molochansk and all the Tokmak region. This is the message all parents received this morning: “Dear parents! EVACUATION has been announced at the school! Today, arrive at the school building with documents for the child and a minimum of things for a couple of weeks. The evacuation will be carried out in Berdiansk. Those who can leave on their own should do it. Due to the aggravation on the front line, there is a threat to the city and the citizens.”

I came from Dnipropetrovsk oblast. I experienced huge stress; we were bombed from the first day of the war. My sons are soldiers, I worry for them. I went to the hospital and from the hospital I was brought to Kolomyia. One of my sons is wounded, please pray for him. The food hampers, I receive, help me to live because I have no income. Thank you very much for your support.

If you wish to donate to help the needy, then please visit our website http://www.mennonitecentre.ca/ and click on the donate tab. To donate by e-transfer please use the email address gtdyck@gmail.com and please include your postal address in a note accompanying the transfer so I can issue a tax receipt to you. Thank you!!

 

 

 

 

Setting A New Direction (#4)

Art in front of our tent at Sheridan Lake

After living in a tent on the shore of Sheridan Lake for about three months, Linda and I began dismantling our camp. The timing was fortuitous. I had assembled a pole fence around the tent to prevent curious free range cattle from trampling on us at night while we were sleeping. A couple of days prior to our departure, a black bear leapt over the corral into our supposedly safe enclosure. We were away at the time and were surprised to find our tent in tatters. For a few nights we slept on the floor of an abandoned cabin. After tidying our campsite and loading the chevy van, we bumped along a rock strewn trail to a road back to civilization.

I had applied to UBC and SFU, and was accepted by both. The latter was new and smaller and would present fewer challenges navigating my way to classes. Also, UBC required math classes. I had barely passed grade 10 math. For me SFU was a logical and easy choice.

When I arrived at the university parking lot for registration, I was greeted by a graffiti message declaring, “Registration is Hell.” Entering the gym, where registration was already in full swing, I was immediately conscious of frenzied, anxious voices. Hundreds of students were scrambling to sign up for courses. When a course was full it was no longer available. I was a small town boy and having had virtually no contact with people while at Sheridan Lake, I found this scene intimidating. In spite of the seemingly chaotic atmosphere though, I was able to acquire most of the courses I needed for a history major.

Linda and I had rented a small basement suite in Burnaby from 80 year old Mrs Johnson. This arrangement would provide us with a brief education in human psychology. We quickly learned that our landlady possessed a suspicious streak. When we were away she entered our suite and snooped, even opening the fridge door to see what we were eating. When my parents visited, she just happened to select this day to tend a window flower box, which provided an unimpeded view of the livingroom where we were visiting.

Mrs. Johnson had turned off the heat downstairs and we dressed warmly at all times. When another tenant moved into the basement, she instructed me to turn on the heat. I frequently stayed up late working on assignments and I later wondered if she considered this a profligate use of hydro. Among her various disconcerting misdemeanors, she demanded we submit to an interrogation by her son. We complied willingly and discovered that he seemed as mystified by his mother’s complaints and accusations as we were. Except that she left clues, at a younger age her suspicious nature might have made her an ideal candidate for CSIS.

Maybe her vigilant surveillance was to keep us on a short leash. After three months we decided this would likely not end well and we gave notice. “Good,” she said with evident satisfaction, “then I won’t have to evict you.” For her it seemed a sweet victory.

We rented a two room suite in the former B.C. Tel office in Abbotsford, directly across the street from busy railway tracks. Our landlords, who lived in the other part of the building were surprisingly congenial. I carpooled to SFU with several fellow students.

My interest in history had been sparked while I was an early teen. My father had a volume of world history in his basement study. It predated the Babylonian Empire and traced events to the end of World War 1. I was mesmerized and returned to the book many times.

Part way through the first semester, I began questioning the value of a history major. I decided that the PSA department (political science, sociology and anthropology) offered a better preparation and foundation for whatever I hoped to accomplish after university. I switched majors and found that several radical left leaning profs wielded considerable influence in the department. Students dissatisfied with what they considered shortcomings in our society flocked to their courses. I had grown up in a fairly conservative Mennonite culture which actively emphasized service to those in need. The left leaning profs sought to indoctrinate us with a belief that our society had been corrupted by greedy political and corporate leaders. They were skilled at pointing out the ills, but other than collapsing the system, they offered few practical answers.

Some profs shunned the teaching of the lefties and I managed to acquire a pretty balanced education. After graduation there would be plenty to figure out on my own, but SFU still provided some basic understandings that would open doors for me later.

 

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